Recently, I received this message from a girl.
I’m almost 30 years old and I’ve never been in a relationship, let alone had sex.
Whenever I’m with my girlfriend, I can’t get into conversations about having a boyfriend or sex.
After a while, I started to have low self-esteem, I felt ashamed to be a virgin at 30 and felt I was unattractive.
But now I had no way to meet the opposite sex and my friends even suggested I go on a date, should I go?
Surprised, I searched the internet for keywords and found a handful of girls in a similar situation to the above.
Strangely enough, anyone can be bothered by the fact that they are a virgin.
This membrane has become a burden of shame for a girl.
- “Should I choose dating to experience sex?”
In reality, there is no need to do so.
Sex is wonderful because it goes naturally to the heart of love.
If you make it an end in itself, you’re putting the cart before the horse.
Sachia, the girl in “17.3 About Sex,” found that the average age of a girl’s first experience worldwide is 17.3 years old.
She happened to be at that age, so she psyched herself up that sex was something she couldn’t live without.
So before a date, she puts on new lingerie, strips down to her privates, and does her best to look like a boy would like.
Because according to Sakiya’s understanding: in a gender relationship, a woman must please a man. After all, that’s how those autos work.
But it has to be said that most images of women in AVs are simply made up by men without their permission.
In fact, girls do not and do not have to make the same sacrifices as they do in AVs.
In the end, of course, because her boyfriend’s roughness made Sakuragi fearful and bitter about the sexual experience as well, she bravely cancelled the sex.
So you see, there is no point in anxiously trying to change in order to cater to those around you who are not ready for it themselves.
Furthermore, there is no law in any country that requires girls to have sexual experiences before they are a few years old.
The so-called normal standard doesn’t really exist, everyone’s timing is different, and it doesn’t matter if it’s earlier or later.
It is important to know that a woman’s sexual freedom is not only the freedom to have sex, but also the freedom not to have sex.